Trail of thoughts

In general, our understanding evolves as we pass through new events in life and meet new people and situations and try to think about those. I feel like I have a trail of evolution of my thoughts which was often left unexpressed in words. But I still remember I had different thinking and I see the transition in my consciousness. Here I put down the trail in sequence of its evolution:

[Before Aug/Sept 2013] - Everything should be perfect.

[Start of Dec 2013] - Humans have imperfection and you cant hate them because they have those.  I am talking about those limitations people have but they cant overcome those anymore. It is ok to be imperfect. If they are your near ones, gel with them accepting their imperfections and finding a way to deal with those. Yet, if you dont see a hope and if you have the possibility to do away with them, no one would stop you !

Will keep writing here to document the trail.

[Oct 2021] - Humans have imperfection but also follow different patterns and have different quirks and habits. Some of these quirks or habits may be annoying to you and may even be unhealthy or needing-improvement in general. You would try to work alongside of those things without pushing them to change but you may not be successful. Then you will try to change them which may cause conflicts because not everyone can take criticism in positive way, no matter what is at stake. You will end up hating at times, questioning yourself and clueless how to deal with the whole situation - should you be working on relationship now that got wounded because you tried to change or should you put efforts to improve your tolerance level. Oh and doing away with someone may not be an easy option for several reasons. 

Another thing I discovered since Dec 2013 is a lot of areas where I can improve and progress. Identified imperfections. I am wondering how did 7 years pass without updating this post.